Wingman or not?

Okay, you want to go to a bar and meet new people but you don't know if you need a "wingman" to go with you. 

First off a wingman is someone who "reels" someone in and it works out better for you if that person is in a serious HAPPY committed relationship.  What good is a wingman if they are going to keep everyone they reel in for you, right?



Next your wingman has to have a personality that attracts but does not over-shadow yours.

Finally, your wingman has to be attractive enough to reel them in but not so attractive that no one focuses on you.

I say....forget the wingman and go alone.  This will force you to talk to others while you are there.  When you talk to others you get to know them.  You may not meet your soul mate the first time out....I mean, really, who does.  What you will get is new friends, a new place to hang out and the ability to be in great company.

Want to meet that special person?  Be yourself and don't play games and bringing a wingman is, let's face it, a game. 

Now, if you want to go out with friends and have a good time (which, honestly, is the best way to attract someone) than get a group of people (or just a buddy) and go have a good time with no expectations or intentions.  Smile, laugh and enjoy because these actions are truly the most attractive qualities anyone is looking for.

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